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Here is part of an article that I received from Suzie at Tantra.com.  I think you may find this article informative and useful. I like the 5th paragraph especially.      Austino

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Orgasms For Men: Belly Breathing And Tantric Sex

There’s a joy in mastering something that might have felt unattainable in the past. I remember many years ago when my husband and I picked up the book ESO - Extended Sexual Orgasm, by Donna and Alan Brauer, a husband and wife team, then at Stanford University. We were amazed at how relatively easy, and fun, the practices were and how quickly we saw results - results that have lasted all these years. Though the book is long gone from my library I have no doubt that the techniques are a modern version of ancient Taoist, Tantric, Arabian and Japanese methods for expanding orgasmic pleasure.

The Tantrics and Taoists, in particular, have developed, over thousands of years, simple, relatively easy and obviously fun techniques to help men train themselves to last longer, choose when they might ejaculate (or not) and experience multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Orgasm and ejaculation are two separate physiological experiences. They don’t necessarily go together, it just seems that way.

The interesting part about achieving ejaculation mastery is that it is the basic practices of self-control and breathing that is fundamental to success. The same is true for learning yoga and meditation. Breathing, focus and the self-control to move forward and accomplish each step to mastery is the universal ‘juice’ to many of life’s worthier practices.

And that is actually the more important part to these practices. Tantric sex is one of the many vehicles to the destination of consciousness. Yes, it’s a great vehicle, but any practices I ever give are meant to expand your awareness, cause you to investigate and bring an inquisitive mind to your life and, most importantly, recognize that you can use the practices at any moment throughout your day.

When you involve your mind with your body you build new brain connections that will stay with you your whole life. ‘Use It or Lose It’ is real and by using your brain to up the quotient of your sexual pleasure you are building new neurons and connecting existing ones too. Then, the flow of orgasmic energy becomes a vital tool you can use to up the ante on your life……

Since my posting last month, I  have been getting lots of questions about the best way to use the Fleshjack. It really depends on for what purpose. More pleasure. Lasting longer? Group parties?

There are some really cool things you can do with it, and I am sure you can figure out a few things yourself but here is one:

Austino’s Tantric Method #1

Place the Fleshjack on a surface that is just less then hip high. Hold it still with you hands, stick your cock in,  and allow your hips to thrust back and forth,  then side to side and then in circles… while you breath.  The movement will open up your hips and wake up your erotic energy.  The breathing and intentional moaning will create more pleasure. You will probably notice sensations throughout your body. Tingling, waves, shivers and so much more. You just might be transported into another dimension if you go long enough. Let’s do 30 minutes. I dare you!

If you are you curious about Tantric sex. You probably want to know what it’s like. How do you do it?

The road to Tantric sex starts with a greater awareness. A cultivated Tantric awareness of yourself, your body and the world around you. It is a learned thing that happens over time. It’s like learning to play the piano. You play your beginning scales and then play the basics before you can really soar to the heights of what you are capable of…

Tantric practices include:
Conscious breathing, sensual sounds, kegels, orgasmic movement, eye gazing and more. You can practice these in your meditation, yoga, or even your self pleasuring rituals.  Again, learning to play your body brings forth great music. So, prepare yourself to soar in pleasure.

Combining these Tantric practices in a sexual experience makes Tantric sex possible.

Blocks To Tantric sex:
Sometimes certain practices can be disturbing, or just too soon, or too intense.This is where Tantric therapy comes into play. A Tantric practitioner can help you notice any blocks to bliss and guide you to work through them. If you are pretty self aware you will find them on your own.

Relaxation is also an important aspect to Tantric sex. It is the most common block to bliss that I know. The deepest pleasure comes from relaxing into pleasure. When you deeply relax you connect with yourself and you experience amazing heightened sensations. When you relax you deepen your felt experience and the feelings between two people can become quiet intense.

Now you have a few basic details about Tantra and Tantric sexuality.  So practice a little and be prepared to transition from your head to your heart and experience something quiet extraordinary.

I am back in Palm Springs for the season.. and it is hot!!!

HuffingtonPost.com has posted a few more articles on Tantra and Tantric sexuality. Here are the links.

Beyond Sexual Techniques

Another Way To Make Love

 Secrets To Lasting Intimacy

Ancient Secrets Of Seduction

 The Art Of MulitDimensional Orgasm