Sacred Intimacy Modalities
A sampling of some of the modalities for healing, learning and growing



Basic Techniques Exploring Intimacy
Hand On Heart, Eye Gazing, Hugging, Sharing, Bonding, Intimate Communication

Movement Techniques
Sensual Swaying, Orgasmic Movement, Erotic Dance, Chakra Breathing, Yoga,

Hugs/Holding Modalitiy
Experience Holding and Hugging For 30 minutes or more

Touch Techniques
Tantric Touch, Sensual Touch, Scratching, Light Hair Pulling, Combination Breath & Touch,
Giving and Receiving, Learning To Receive Fully, Learning To Give Fully

Ritual Modalities
Ritual Undressing, Ritual Feeding, Ritual Drinking, Ritual Bathing, Ritual Manhood -Stepping Into
Manhood With Honor, Ritual To Honor Your Body or Body Parts That Are Shamed Or Judged

Intimacy Situations
Exploring Intimacy Through Breathing Together, Exploring Eye Gazing Together, Spooning, Cuddling

Witnessing or Listening Situations
Telling Your Erotic Life Story, Telling Me About Your Body While I Watch And Listen, Letting Me Tell You The Words You Have Been Waiting To Hear

Spiritual Situations
Being Absolved From Your Erotic Sins Through Ritual Confessional, Spoken To By Your Spiritual Leader

Addressing Fears
Discuss Fears Around HIV, Healing Your Fears Around Sex, Heal Your Fears Of Anal Penetration

Body Image Healing
Self-pleasuring While Seeing Pictures Of You, Create A Ritual To Honor Your Body Or Specific Body Parts That Have Been Judged Or Shamed

Self Esteem Healing
Explore Your Sense Of Worthiness By Being Worshiped By Me, Letting Me Tell You About You, Looking In The Mirror And Doing Erotic Dancing For Yourself And Looking In Your Eyes, Feeling Lovable.

Creating A Connection To Your Body & Healing The Disconnect
Embodyment Exercises, Stress And Trauma Healing Exercises, Body Awareness

Giving Touch
Learning To Give Sensual Touch and Have More Confidence In Giving.

Receiving Touch
Learning To Receive Sensual Touch and Go Deeper Into Your Experience Of Pleasure.

Sensory Play and Multi-Sensory Play
Expanding Your Conscious Experiene Of The Senses -Smelling. Tasting, Hearing, Seeing, and Touching.

Emotions And Feelings
Feeling Your Emotions, Allowing Yourself to Cry, Scream, And Let It All Out In A Safe Space.

Self Pleasuring/Self Loving
Self-Pleasuring While Showing Off To Me, Learning New Skills for Self Pleasuring, Discovering Self Loving Rituals and Techniques

Daddy Modalities
Being A Little Boy With Your Daddy, Being Held By Daddy, Sunggling, Having A Book Or Story Read To You, Telling You The Words You Have Been Yearning To Hear

Fantasies/Role Play
Act Out Your Fantasies Through Role Playing, Allowing Me To Be Your Partner, Role Play An Old Story Or Wound And Create A New Ending

Fetish/Leather/BDSM
Surrendering Through Bondage, Experience Intimacy Through Intense Body Sensations

Discovering & Owning Your Sexual Desires
Talk about Why You Want To Kiss or Be Kissed, Why You Want To Suck Or Be Sucked, Why You Want To Fuck Or Be Fucked, Other Desires Or Curiousities Including Those Considered Different

Displaying Your Magnificence
Being Photographed, Become Your Own Erotic Icon or Porn Star, Replace Images Of Others With Your And Become The Star, Creating A Ritual Around Stepping Into Your Manhoo

Couples
Guiding You And Your Partner In Erotic Play, Exploring New Roles, Exploring As A Couple Any Other Rituals Or Techniques Mentioned Here, Duo Meditation, Intimate Yoga, Deep Eye To Eye Bonding, Sacred Loving With An Open Heart.

Communication Modalities
Asking For What You Want, Allowing Me To Be Someone You Need To Communicate With. Communication Techniques, “ I Statements” To Express Your Desire

Lovemaking Techniques
Touch And Being Touched As A Lover, Expressing Love To Your Partner, Feeling Loved, Giving and Receiving, Being Able to Give Fully, Being Able To Receive Fully

Basic Tantric Techniques Exploring Embodiment With A Partner
Connected Breath, Sound, Movement, Relaxation, Learning To Let Go, Ecstatic Expression

Massage Modalities - Learning To Receive and Give
Sensual Massage, Light Touch Massage, Pelvic Massage, Erotic Massage, Anal Massage, Prostate Massage, Male G-Spot Massage, Giving and Receiving

Advanced Learning
Advanced Tantric Exploration Techniques Of Meditation, Yoga, Chanting, Ecstatic Sexuality Techniques, Spiritual Integration Rituals, Erotic Spirituality Practices